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15 month old is a picky eater

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HowToLife · 11/10/2026 13:00

My son is currently 15 months old and for a few months now, he has been quite picky with food. He used to be so good with food and willing to try new things. I know it's normal at this age, but I would like some advice.

He has three meals and two snacks a day. Spaced out so he isn't too full for his next meal.

He only drinks water. I've tried milk (warm and cold), but he spits it out. He'll only eat bread, potatoes, bananas, some other fruits and yogurts. Fish and chicken are sometimes OK.

I've included one or two 'Safe Food' for his meals and one new/different food, but he'll only eat the ones he likes.

I've tried handing him the food and sometimes he'll lick it, but he'll immediately drop it. I remove the plate when he tries throwing the food off his tray. I don't shout at him or make any comments about it as I don't want to make this a negative experience or to make him feel pressured.

I'm on a restricted meal plan due to some health issues, so I can't eat exactly what he is having, but I do eat at the same time as him. If he shows an interest in my food then I will offer it to him. He just licks it or mushes it together.

He sleeps well for his naps and nighttime and doesn't appear to be teething, so I don't think that's an issue.

I've tried including him in what I am cooking, however, he would rather look or throw the things.

I get him weighed now and then and he is a good weight for his age so there's isn't any concerns. My Health Visitor said to keep doing what I am doing, but I'm wondering if there's any things else I can do.

He doesn't appear hungry when he goes down for bedtime, however, I do worry he isn't eating enough of different things.

Also he has lots of energy, which he burns off with playing, walking and running. He doesn't look pale or ill, so I'm assuming he isn't lacking in anything.

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PinkWaffleMaker · 11/10/2026 13:09

You sound like you’re doing all the right things. Continue to offer a variety of foods alongside foods that you know he will eat. You choose what goes in front of him and he chooses how much eats. This stage is developmental normal and the vast majority come out of it.

The licking and tasting is great, he’s willing to put the food by his mouth.

It doesn’t sound like you’re giving him a whole load of processed snacks that he’s filling up on and preferring which can be a common trap that people fall into.

Is there a reason why he can’t have foods more similar to what you have on your plate? I guess it depends how restricted your diet is. It would probably help if he sees you eating the same food you’re expecting him to eat.

As he gets closer to toddlerhood don’t be afraid to be more firm with behaviours like throwing food. There’s a shift that happens when you go from parenting a baby to a toddler and it can be a difficult one to get first time round.

Didimum · 11/10/2026 13:11

It’s very normal. Keep offering, keep doing what you’re doing. Picky eating peaks around 8yrs old. My twins were extremely picky eaters, despite us always encouraging adventurous palettes. Lo and behold one twin is completely over it now and eating everything. The other is slower but so much better. They are 8yrs old.

ExplodingSmittens · 11/10/2026 15:31

It is normal yes. Toddlers naturally become more fussy as they start to wonder off from Mum.
Can I ask how much milk he’s having a day and which type?

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dairydebris · 11/10/2026 15:34

I think its really important for your child to watch you eat normal healthy food abd be offered the same normal healthy food- thats how they learn.
Can he eat the same foods as you? Children over 1 can really eat most things...

NorwegianForest · 11/10/2026 15:36

This all sounds absolutely normal and you seem to be handling it well.

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