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Advice needed - braces

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Sus22 · 09/10/2026 13:31

Dentist mentioned a couple of years ago that ds 13 might need braces to bring down his eye teeth. Then he had an episode of lockjaw at the start of the year, so dentist referred him to orthodontist, saying he'd been thinking of it anyway and his jaw may be misaligned, so worth checking out. Lock jaw hasn't happened again, slight pain some mornings, but exercises have helped it loads.

Had orthodontist this morning and she said yes, he's ready for braces, but that there was a strong chance it could make jaw pain worse, there's no sign of misalignment, sign here - no explanation of why they were needed. So I asked why, that we had been initially referred about his eye teeth and these have now dropped on their own. She said no one needs braces, it's always purely cosmetic, he has a minimal overbite that could be corrected, only one year, no teeth need removed.

But cosmetically they have never been an issue, he has no problem with them and how they look and neither do we. So strongly feeling we should refuse - doesn't need them for eye teeth, could make jaw worse, always v prone to awful mouth ulcers that would v likely get worse. Anyone any advice?? We were there for advice and orthodontist hasn't really given any, just said he qualifies for braces so he's getting braces 🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️

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GoodGirlFaith · 09/10/2026 13:33

Was this NHS? Do you mean he qualifies for NHS orthodontic treatment?

MirrorMirror1247 · 09/10/2026 13:33

It's fine if he doesn't want them. He can always get them as an adult if he changes his mind later in life.

Sus22 · 09/10/2026 13:47

Yes, sorry, it would be on the NHS. She said he just qualified for free treatment.

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MajesticWhine · 09/10/2026 13:55

Personally I would encourage him to get it done. He will be glad when he’s older. And if he qualifies for NHS orthodontic work then they are quite misaligned. But he is old enough to know his own mind and to refuse if he doesn’t want to. There is mild discomfort from braces, that’s the whole point, your teeth get moved in your jaw.

SilenceInside · 09/10/2026 14:02

Agree that if he qualifies for NHS treatment it is more than just cosmetic issues. My DS has just had his braces taken off after about a year, yes there was some discomfort particularly at first but nothing that couldn't be handled. Now he has perfectly aligned teeth and it's all done and dusted, bar wearing the retainer overnight.

If it really was just very minor cosmetic, you would not be offered free NHS treatment.

Sus22 · 09/10/2026 14:10

Totally understand where you're coming from, but she literally said all treatment for braces is cosmetic, no one 'needs' them, and couldn't guarantee it would help his jaw pain in the long term, ie. It could make it worse, not just in the short term. So confused

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MellowSubmarine · 09/10/2026 14:15

The orthodontist said that braces are always purely cosmetic?? I guess that’s partly true in the literal sense that no one died from not having braces so you can turn them down and survive.. but there are definitely problems which can occur from poorly aligned teeth. And she also said that he qualified for NHS braces? Which are not given just for cosmetic reasons?

Can you see someone else..?

Sus22 · 09/10/2026 14:28

Think that's what she meant - it's not life and death. I said can I just ask why he needs them, and she said no one needs them for health reasons, it's purely cosmetic.

Also think that's why I'm not sure what to do - she was very dismissive, basically your at an orthodontist so you must want braces, whereas I was there for specific things to be fixed, which she has said don't need fixed/could get worse, and when I did ask questions she said no one 'needs' them, but that he qualified for NHS treatment so make an appointment to come back for fitting. Would literally not know why she was recommending them if I didn't question her about our original referral.

Also know that if he's being offered treatment we should probably take it, especially if he needs cosmetic work in later life, so thanks for all the advice so far

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