I’ve recently split with the father of my 2 year old, will skip the long story of why I’m not with him but he’s abusive and I’ve finally had enough. Today was the first day he’s come to pick her up since we split the other day, he was quiet and I was polite telling him where our daughter said she’d like him to take her today and here’s her coat and her bag etc. when he was leaving with her he said ‘are we done’ I said ‘I’ve explained how I feel and told you where I’m at’ he said ‘tell me it’s done then’ I said yes it’s done I don’t see us coming back from this. He said in an angry disgusting tone of voice ‘you’re an idiot’ and then I said bye to my girl and he was walking out with her I heard him say to our daughter in an angry tone ‘stupid mummy’ this has really pissed me off because that’s not right and if I had said something like stupid daddy to her and he heard and called him an idiot he would’ve honestly probably punched me. I don’t want this abuse every time he comes to get her. I can’t talk to him because it’s like talking to a brick wall and he gets so nasty. What would you do?