Feeling low and after advice/perspective. I have 2 DDs, 4 and 6. At school/nursery and around others they are nice, well behaved kids and it’s all rosy. But at home they are a nightmare. Always fighting, arguing and creating so much mess. I’m all for creative play but it’s everything out all the time. Takes me hours to tidy. And then there’s bedtimes. Beyond awful, can take 2 hours as have to stay with them. It’s late and I’m exhausted. I work part time (DH is self employed and works long hours) but never have any time for myself. I was told 2 and 4 are the worst ages but it’s not getting any better. My girls want for nothing, they do clubs and activities etc. They get love and attention but they’re so ungrateful and I feel like a housemaid. does it get better?