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What is my 20 month old daughter doing here??

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AlienLady · 03/09/2026 12:37

I can’t add a video unfortunately.
but she gets on her knees multiple times a day and tenses her legs. She even climbs on people to do it. It’s getting more frequent. I can distract her etc and she’s makes eye contact and aware etc so not having a seizure etc.

My eldest never did anything like this so it’s new to me. Do I need to see a health care professional? I’m surprised her nursery have not mentioned her doing it. She’s been doing it for months.

What is my 20 month old daughter doing here??
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moppety · 03/09/2026 16:54

Looks like child’s pose! Classic yoga move, it mimics the kind of position a baby has in the womb. It’s probably just a comfy and comforting position for her to relax in.

IsabellineFenwick · 03/09/2026 16:58

Have you asked her?

Rainallnight · 03/09/2026 16:59

Is she constipated?

LoafofSellotape · 03/09/2026 17:05

Look up childhood masturbation,it's very common.

User573359 · 03/09/2026 19:59

It's gratification disorder, Google it. A form of stimming.

User573359 · 03/09/2026 19:59

It's gratification disorder, Google it. A form of stimming.

AlienLady · 03/09/2026 21:55

Does it stop? She’s doing it more and more. How do I get her to stop?

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BillieWiper · 03/09/2026 21:58

Have you asked her what she's doing? Ask her what it feels like?
If she says it feels nice it could be masturbation. Nothing wrong with that btw.

PrettyLittleRose · 03/09/2026 22:10

This is a photo of a 20 month old? Confused

It looks like an adult.

5682Jhd · 03/09/2026 22:12

PrettyLittleRose · 03/09/2026 22:10

This is a photo of a 20 month old? Confused

It looks like an adult.

I thought the same.

Tel12 · 03/09/2026 22:27

5682Jhd · 03/09/2026 22:12

I thought the same.

It's mum demonstrating the pose

AlienLady · 03/09/2026 22:44

No that is my 20 month old. I zoomed in the picture. She’s on a sun lounger…. It looks like a child to me?? How does it look like an adult?!

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AlienLady · 03/09/2026 22:45

BillieWiper · 03/09/2026 21:58

Have you asked her what she's doing? Ask her what it feels like?
If she says it feels nice it could be masturbation. Nothing wrong with that btw.

She’s 20 months old… I don’t think she would understand my question.

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DogAnxiety · 03/09/2026 22:49

Well, yes, of course, if she is making stereotyped movements multiple times a day that make you go “WTF is that?” Then you need to seek out a medical opinion. What a strange post.

BillieWiper · 04/09/2026 09:37

AlienLady · 03/09/2026 22:45

She’s 20 months old… I don’t think she would understand my question.

It's worth a try! It's a bit similar to something I did as a little kid which was masturbation of sorts but obviously Idk what that meant. My mum just told me not to do it at the dinner table! 😭

Cawfee0 · 04/09/2026 14:32

DogAnxiety · 03/09/2026 22:49

Well, yes, of course, if she is making stereotyped movements multiple times a day that make you go “WTF is that?” Then you need to seek out a medical opinion. What a strange post.

How is it a strange post? Did OP say anywhere that she won't seek a medical opinion at all?

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