Small sibling behavior

[sunshine2go]

I have two children aged 2 and almost 4. I am so fed up with their behaviour. On their own they are delightful and I enjoy their company. But this is rare as they are usually together. But they constant hit, fight, back chat, spit. If it goes an 30mins with out one screaming then that is a good day. I’m so fed up and not enjoying them. Which is really sad but everyday is just terrible.

when will this get better?

They spit? Both of them? That sounds unusual to me.

Yep the older knows they aren’t supposed to. Last couple of weeks it’s has been a thing and they both do it copying each other

What do you do when they spit? Mine could be bloody awful but we’ve never had spitting.