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Toddler throws up when upset

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Mamadotty · 20/08/2026 17:17

I'm at a loss!
My daughter is 3 now and has just started playgroup. Problem is she keeps getting so upset she throws up due to wanting to come home and missing me.
She has a history of being sick when she's upset since birth.
Has anyone any experience with this happening and tips on how to help her?
Is this something I should ask the doctor about?

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Theunamedcat · 20/08/2026 17:21

She will grow out of it my friends son used to do it drop him off at nursery he would puke (nursery took him anyway because it wasnt illness just fomo) put sweetcorn on his plate accidentally told him to eat around it puke moms gone to work puke he is about 6ft tall very healthy adult now took him till 5? To grow out of it for the most part his family would just change his clothes and carry on

Liketwodeflatedballoons · 20/08/2026 17:28

My almost 3 year old is similar.

About a year ago, he had a tummy bug and we were encouraged to let him eat whatever he wanted when he was recovering as he had been so unwell. Obviously, that had to eventually stop. So he would make sick noises if he didn’t want to eat what we had given him.

Then he discovered he had a gag reflex when drinking from a long straw, and that he could trigger it. Lasted a couple of weeks, never actually made himself sick but did it for attention.

He has settled into nursery but does cry upon drop off, and gets very phlegmy. You can see where this is going.

He was ‘sick’ once going into nursery so we went straight home, and has been a couple of times since. But they and I cottoned on quickly. No fuss clean up, extra food offered, no mention of it. I also dress him in his favourite clothes and give plain for nursery spades which he doesn’t want to wear.

Unsurprisingly, he has now stopped. Just another (gross, dramatic) phase!

mindutopia · 20/08/2026 17:49

This is just one of those things. The best thing you can do is just persist and keep things consistent. I wouldn’t avoid anything because you’re afraid it may happen. Be consistent and loving, but keep doing all your normal things. She will settle and it will be a phase she gets through.

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