I’ve never posted here before but when my DS (now 10 months) was younger he had severe eczema and I used to trawl forums looking for advice and answers so wanted to share my advice and experiences with others in case it helps them. I know how isolating and desperate it can be having a baby with severe eczema.
My son first got diagnosed with eczema after getting a facial rash at 2 weeks old, this cleared up but then the eczema came back with vengeance at 3 months. Between 3-7 months it was awful and I was at my wits end trying to find an answer so I hope some of this advice reaches someone who needs it.
- we followed all the usual eczema advice; removing wool and synthetic products (only dressing him in cotton), bamboo sheets for night and hypoallergenic mattress, cleaning/dusting regularly, no fragranced products (including the hand wash that we use when washing hands)
- lukewarm warm daily bath for 5-10 minutes with emollient in the water
- we removed dairy and went onto a hypoallergenic formula and this helped with reflux and flushing but the eczema was still bad
- started early weaning at 4 months with egg and peanut per BDA advice, his eczema worsened with egg but he tolerates it when baked so we have been giving baked egg 2x weekly to avoid more severe allergies (we have seen GP, health visitor, NHS consultant and dermatology nurse and nobody informed us of the evidence between eczema and early weaning to avoid food allergies so do read into this yourself)
- The weaning advice on the BDA advises to give boiled egg which is what we did initially but it did flare up his eczema significantly (and still does) so a private dermatology nurse told us to give him egg in baked food such as a healthy cake instead
- we tried 10+ emollients and our son reacted to several of them (very sensitive skin!). Aproderm/aveeno caused sensitivities. He particularly didn’t like any of the heavy ointments that are always recommended such as hydromol and cetraben. We tried mustela stelatopia which was ok but not great. We also tried la Roche posay which was recommended by the dermatologist but didn’t work well for us. The dermatologist then recommended trying cerave hydratant baume which was a miracle cream for us and made a significant difference to his eczema. Everyone is different but if you have exhausted a lot of options this is worth a try.
- our son had facial eczema and I was worried about what would happen at night when he was no longer swaddled. After lots of searching I found the cozeecoo which is a sleeping wearing blanket that babies can wear at night but doesn’t let them scratch their face. It was brilliant as they can still roll and move but can’t scratch the eczema. It is expensive but so worth it and i managed to sell mine on Vinted afterwards so you may be able to get a second hand one.
- scratch sleeves for day time naps and turnover sleeves
- I paid privately to have a consultation with a dermatology nurse and got loads of reassurance and advice which helped massively. The main take away from this was not to be scared of steroids. They also reiterated that although you’re often told to use steroid for 7 days and then stop, it’s difficult for a doctor to know the skin will be better in 7 days so it’s better for you as their mum to taper down when you can see it is under control and reduce slowly from there. You can’t put a timeline on eczema so it is about waking up and making a call as to whether they need a steroid that day or not. The dermatology nurse have me the confidence to trust my instincts on this.
- the nurse also made it clear the progress wouldn’t be linear and it wasn’t a failure to go back to steroids after a period of improved skin
- the consultant started my son on Elidel which is a steroid sparing cream. I couldn’t find much information about Elidel success online; for us it had been great, however it was a slow start and took about a month of the skin getting worse before it got better. During this time we had some bad flare ups and I had to use steroid and Elidel at the same time (different times of day). I struggled to find any information about whether this was ok. The dermatology nurse advised me that this was fine during a flare up and then once the skin improved to step back down to Elidel only. Moving to Elidel wasnt a quick fix but the dermatology nurse advised me that Elidel works best when used consistently and regularly, and over time it did start to work really well.
- Weaning was a nightmare with the facial eczema, I used to moisturise before food and then use a bamboo cloth to gently dab away any food/water that went onto his face. Then after eating ensure his face was clean and moisturise again straight away.
i think that’s everything and hope it is useful for someone going through the same thing.
my baby boy has beautiful skin now and only the odd mild flare up. There is definitely light at the end of the tunnel, so hang on in there, you are doing a great job.