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Women always lose ๐Ÿ™„

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Lovingsingledad1973 · 23/07/2026 22:28

I would like your opinion. As a councilor for 10 years I have noticed despite women trying to keep children from the fathers they all eventually lose! Why is this?

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Cantwaitforwinter · 23/07/2026 22:36

Many mothers will fabricate stories of abuse/neglect in order to restrict childrenโ€™s contact with their father. This is often easily identified by professionals and gives less credibility to genuine abuse survivors.

Thereโ€™s also a high focus on mediation and trying to keep a family together because society sees it as in the childโ€™s best interest to have a โ€œstandard familyโ€ despite it often being more damaging.

Pistachiocake · 23/07/2026 22:39

If you're on the council, might be worth checking with your social services department to get some insight, particularly to get their advice on what will help children.

Lovingsingledad1973 · 23/07/2026 22:43

Cantwaitforwinter · 23/07/2026 22:36

Many mothers will fabricate stories of abuse/neglect in order to restrict childrenโ€™s contact with their father. This is often easily identified by professionals and gives less credibility to genuine abuse survivors.

Thereโ€™s also a high focus on mediation and trying to keep a family together because society sees it as in the childโ€™s best interest to have a โ€œstandard familyโ€ despite it often being more damaging.

I appreciate your very profesional and reasonable response thank you. I am a confirmed diagnosed narcissist and although I am a fully qualified councillor for men. I often wonder this myself I have noted that a judge for example will literally lead the mother to the gallows for example with listening to allegations over and over. So Thank-you again for your response. Sadly I see the children always come away damaged and 9/10 leave the mother when they are old enough to hear the truth. Even as a confirmed narcissist which is a medical mental health disorder and cannot be treated only trained to deal with i notice the women more often drag cases through court for often years and still lose.

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Cantwaitforwinter · 23/07/2026 22:55

Lovingsingledad1973 · 23/07/2026 22:43

I appreciate your very profesional and reasonable response thank you. I am a confirmed diagnosed narcissist and although I am a fully qualified councillor for men. I often wonder this myself I have noted that a judge for example will literally lead the mother to the gallows for example with listening to allegations over and over. So Thank-you again for your response. Sadly I see the children always come away damaged and 9/10 leave the mother when they are old enough to hear the truth. Even as a confirmed narcissist which is a medical mental health disorder and cannot be treated only trained to deal with i notice the women more often drag cases through court for often years and still lose.

Itโ€™s unfortunately very common, luckily social services and courts are getting more savvy to mothers malicious claims these days and see right through it. It doesnโ€™t stop them trying, youโ€™re right about the children though, in my experience they all want to reduce contact with their mother once they reach a certain age and can see the toxic behaviour themselves. Thatโ€™s usually when the โ€œheโ€™s poisoning the children against their motherโ€ routineโ€ begins.

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