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Women always lose 🙄

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Lovingsingledad1973 · 23/07/2026 22:28

I would like your opinion. As a councilor for 10 years I have noticed despite women trying to keep children from the fathers they all eventually lose! Why is this?

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Cantwaitforwinter · 23/07/2026 22:36

Many mothers will fabricate stories of abuse/neglect in order to restrict children’s contact with their father. This is often easily identified by professionals and gives less credibility to genuine abuse survivors.

There’s also a high focus on mediation and trying to keep a family together because society sees it as in the child’s best interest to have a “standard family” despite it often being more damaging.

Pistachiocake · 23/07/2026 22:39

If you're on the council, might be worth checking with your social services department to get some insight, particularly to get their advice on what will help children.

Lovingsingledad1973 · 23/07/2026 22:43

Cantwaitforwinter · 23/07/2026 22:36

Many mothers will fabricate stories of abuse/neglect in order to restrict children’s contact with their father. This is often easily identified by professionals and gives less credibility to genuine abuse survivors.

There’s also a high focus on mediation and trying to keep a family together because society sees it as in the child’s best interest to have a “standard family” despite it often being more damaging.

I appreciate your very profesional and reasonable response thank you. I am a confirmed diagnosed narcissist and although I am a fully qualified councillor for men. I often wonder this myself I have noted that a judge for example will literally lead the mother to the gallows for example with listening to allegations over and over. So Thank-you again for your response. Sadly I see the children always come away damaged and 9/10 leave the mother when they are old enough to hear the truth. Even as a confirmed narcissist which is a medical mental health disorder and cannot be treated only trained to deal with i notice the women more often drag cases through court for often years and still lose.

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Cantwaitforwinter · 23/07/2026 22:55

Lovingsingledad1973 · 23/07/2026 22:43

I appreciate your very profesional and reasonable response thank you. I am a confirmed diagnosed narcissist and although I am a fully qualified councillor for men. I often wonder this myself I have noted that a judge for example will literally lead the mother to the gallows for example with listening to allegations over and over. So Thank-you again for your response. Sadly I see the children always come away damaged and 9/10 leave the mother when they are old enough to hear the truth. Even as a confirmed narcissist which is a medical mental health disorder and cannot be treated only trained to deal with i notice the women more often drag cases through court for often years and still lose.

It’s unfortunately very common, luckily social services and courts are getting more savvy to mothers malicious claims these days and see right through it. It doesn’t stop them trying, you’re right about the children though, in my experience they all want to reduce contact with their mother once they reach a certain age and can see the toxic behaviour themselves. That’s usually when the “he’s poisoning the children against their mother” routine” begins.

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