Is sharing a hotel room with my boyfriend and daughter appropriate?

[HollyIvy89]

Is It appropriate for my long term boyfriend to share hotel room with me and my 14 year old daughter. I don’t think it is. I always ask him to get his own room or we get a 1 bed apartment where possible and she and I share.
what do you think ? Kids love him and see him like a father. He collected them from every activity and plays in pool with them etc and I have no issue him watching them in home when I away and even though 14 year old is not bothered I think it’s awkward for all of us being in just 1 room sleeping.

I don’t think she would be very comfortable with this at her age. Your instincts are right.

No
a 14 year old needs her own room

Not appropriate.

Nope def not

What’s changed if you’ve always got separate rooms?

Totally inappropriate. Is he saying it's okay?

I don't see the issue?

No definitely not. Your daughter needs her privacy.

If they can get a 2 bedroom apartment hotel

not appropriate and am v surprised your 14yo DD wouldn't rather have her own room

I would do as you have been doing all along - separate rooms, however you can make that work in your holiday location. Curious why you're questioning it now - is there an upcoming trip where only one shared room is possible?

This reads like the same poster on a different thread where the 14 year old dont like the long term partner.

Sorry MNetters but is it me or is anyone else seen these threads that always has the same ring to them and always involve a 14 year old daughter.