I feel awful, I have just kicked out my son because of his behaviour. He is 19 and finished education last May and has done nothing since. He lives in his bedroom, gaming all the time, doesnt help around the house, his room is disgusting, the only thing he likes doing is going to his mates once a week. I have been at him a bit about getting a job because it seems hes not trying that hard to find one, but hes adamant he has been. He will instantly blow up when I question it and he can say some vulger things to me, he does have ADHD so I don't know if some of it is down to that but I am at my wits end and last night I just snapped and I said I wanted him out. His little bother was witnessing it all and was nearly crying. I felt extremely uncomfortable and hid the kitchen knives because even though he is not physically abusive, I don't know if he could just snap. I now don't know if I am in the wrong but I have told him before about kicking him out and I felt like I couldn't back down now, or he would see it as an empty threat. He is gonig to the council offices now but I know they may not help him but he has an option to stay at his mates for a bit and I know my parents will let him stay at theres. I feel he needs a wake up call and see how easy he had it here because he seems delusional with his beliefs and I feel a lot of it is from him spending all his time online being brainwashed.