How do you raise good human beings when you are co parenting with an abusive man? I recently separated from my kids dad. He is still really aggressive in front of the kids when we do hand overs. Tonight for example he had picked up one kid from school and took them to the shop before bringing back to me. Our child came home in floods of tears saying his dad had been shouting at him in the shop. My ex became instantly abusive calling our son a prck and telling me to shut the fck up multiple times so that our toddler started repeating it. This is not a one off behaviour. The kids have been dysregulated all evening and I’m now sat in tears because I feel like I am still failing them even after leaving the relationship. How can I expect my kids to be decent people when they witness their dad being aggressive all the time? I don’t know how to mitigate his awful behaviour to protect them 😣