Hi everyone I need some advice.
I’ve posted before but just incase anyone needs the low down briefly. Split up with my soon to be ex husband in May as he had an affair and left to be with AP. In July that relationship for them both broke down. Since then I have been stalked round my work place there are witnesses for this and had 3 incidents of looking through my windows on ring doorbell. Harbour, HV and police involved. We coparent still using app to record everything. The last incident of looking through my windows was last month and I decided to leave the city we lived in with written permission from dad. We are 45 minutes out from him now and back in my home town. He still lives in the other city.
He was trying to use the children’s wellbeing to get my new address saying it will be too cold to handover in public. We’ve always got public transport through the full marriage as I don’t drive and it’s never been an issue for him. Withholding schedules, bringing kids back whenever he wants without notice, booking overtime and telling me I have to have the kids back early. Begging for me back saying he can show well I’m doing and wants to be a part of it then 2 days later saying he should have never called and it’s his mental health despite when begging me back said he was on medication and seeking therapy.
Now he’s told me he’s booked an MOT round the corner from the house I’m residing in with family while we sort a move van for my new home, he’s always had his MOT done in his own city by the same person. He said it’s convenient for the kids being collected but I explained that we will be moving home to our new house before then. He seemed a bit miffed when I said this. I don’t think he believed I had a new home.
I feel like I can’t escape this man.