Hi mumsnet, i have two little children, 3 years and 3 months old. i do my best to limit screens, my toddler doesn't have an Ipad and never used one, but he likes Tv. we watch BBC shows for kids most of the time; he loves Bob the Builder and fireman sam for example. My husband plays a lot of games in his free time and sometimes he gives the toddler the phone to watch TV so he can play games.. he knows the child can watch shows, but only on Tv not on phone. The problem with the phone is that he watches youtube kids and without noticing, he is watching all sort of shows for older kids and very stimulating and he is losing his shit after a while (tantrums, extreme fatigue etc). So i am having a constant battle with the husband, feels like i am parenting him too.."please dont play games in front of the child or don;t give him the phone ... try to play with him.. " it really feels harder to parent my husband than my toddler. any words of advice? I just realised why I am so exhausted all the time...