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I’m really struggling with my 9 year old dd.

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Blueybingomum · 19/10/2025 17:44

I have two older dc (18&16) and they were nothing like dd9.

she talks back, doesn’t listen and is so rude. I don’t know where iv gone wrong.

like today she was sat somewhere she shouldn’t have been and her dad and myself both asked her if she could move please and she point blank refused to. Then said we are not giving her a good enough reason to move..

she’s constantly asking for stuff and when I say no she acts like a spoilt brat saying she never gets anything etc when she does.

she stresses out so easily over the littlest things that then cause an argument between the 3dc.

if I ask her not to something she will still carry on doing it until I shout, like today touching the bins in public.

she mocks the older two and can be quite cruel if she doesn’t get her own way.

im at breaking point tbh :(

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Blueybingomum · 19/10/2025 17:48

Also I’m really struggling with her thinking she’s older than she is?! Like the clothing she wants to wear, she asks for make up! Over my dead body is she having make up, she tells me her friends where a full face?! My 18dd was absolutely nothing like this

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