I've posted before but things got better for a while. Long story short, ex husb used to smoke weed. He ended up taking me to court for access to our SS, court ordered drugs testing which he passed. Have smelt it on DD's clothes since after being at his before and did mention it to him to which he replied that he no longer smokes it.
I didn't believe him but just kept an eye, there's been no incidences for ages.
However, he picked her up for his weekend today, looked high as a kite and smelt like he had pockets full of weed.
I'm sat in tears having had to send DD off with him. I know it's not the worst drug, and he's so used to it that its probably ok. But it does not sit right with me that she's now going into that stinky house with someone stoned.
Any advice? I've spoken to a friend who works in social services who has said they do nothing for someone smoking weed in the house with a child unless they're dealing it so I don't feel like thats an avenue I can even explore.