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Have I sent the invites too early?

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Runningforthesun · 25/04/2025 23:11

DS wants his birthday at a particular venue which is quite popular and needs booked quite far in advance. Managed to get it booked today for his birthday at the start of June and sent a WhatsApp message out to the class WhatsApp to invite them. Just realized we've invited everyone 6 weeks in advance and this might seem strange. Probably wouldn't have given this much notice only we booked it today, is 6 weeks too much notice?

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OppsUpsSide · 25/04/2025 23:13

Not if you follow it up nearer the time

Edithpilou · 25/04/2025 23:13

No , it’s fine

mynameiscalypso · 25/04/2025 23:17

Totally normal in our group. But a reminder week or two before is helpful!

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Runningforthesun · 25/04/2025 23:20

Thanks, im an overthinker and was worrying!

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OppsUpsSide · 25/04/2025 23:22

Don’t worry overthinking your DC’s birthday party is very normal!

Chrysanthemum5 · 25/04/2025 23:30

This seems totally normal to me. One of the mums in my daughter's class used to send out birthday invitations 6 months in advance 😂

BunnyRuddington · 26/04/2025 07:51

Sounds fine to me too. It will give everyone a chance to pout the date in their dairies and hopefully reply. It will also give you time to chase up the ones they haven’t replied.

Agree that a reminder will be useful too Smile

HelenWheels · 26/04/2025 07:52

no not at all
just remember to send a reminder

WaltzingWaters · 26/04/2025 07:55

Yeah 6 weeks is completely fine. Send a reminder a week before.

Thedandelionshavewon · 26/04/2025 08:15

You did the right thing. I once booked the venue, didn’t send the invite, and another child sent a whole class invite for the same time before us.

DC is year 4 now and the fenzy of class parties has happily passed. I don’t miss all those Saturdays at leisure centres.

Turnoffthelight · 26/04/2025 08:17

Nope totally fine. I have done the same.

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