I’m not sure if I’m being ridiculous so need perspective. DF who I see infrequently, twice a year, was saying how lucky I am with my DC etc but then said worried how he will get on at uni as ‘seems, not lacking confidence, but nervous’. DC prob not that comfortable with DF (he can be a bit overbearing and DC has never spent much time with him). DC is not overly confident adults he doesn’t know well, but has a great group of friends, always been popular and seems confident with his group. Also no problem making friends. It annoyed me DF made this assertion. I said something about how he would be fine as no problem making friends etc. Would this bother you??