I have a 5 yo girl im 34 and we are really happy we have a great balance of work, home, relationship and our little girl.. it works and somtimes the work balance can be hard though. Im really leaning towards 1 and done im an only child myself but my partner is one of 9 he said hes happy with just her if we dont have another.. i think im scared of rocking the balance with 2 and i had PND the first time so i have that worry..anyway are you one and done or 50/50. I have stage 4 endometroisis so i dont know if i can have another. Sometimes i think it would be nice other times i think how would i do it as im balancing plates now..