Hi I was wondering if I could get some advice. I have a daughter who is 3 and half years old. I'm single handly raising her and have done since she was born. Her father didn't want anything to do with her until the Government told him he must leave the country as his visa is no longer valid. Once faced with deportation, he then filed for a child arrangement order to use my daughter to be able to stay in the country. The court how ordered me to take my daughter to a contact centre so her father can get to know her. My daughter doesn't know him , he is a stranger to her. I don't know how to explain to her that she has to go to an unfamiliar place to see a person she doesn't know and why this is happening. Please help. What do I say??