Being Fair!

[OscarsMum02]

Hi, 3 children = 2DS with ex and 1DD with my Partner.
My eldest 2 sons DS go on plenty of holidays through out the year with their dad and will be going on a lavish short trip soon.
Im worried my youngest DD is missing out as we go on a couple of trips a year as a family (including my x2DS) they get double the holidays - approx 6 a year between both houses.

I was thinking about take my DD on a little trip whilst they are away with their dad, i worry my DD is not getting the same experiences, and to even it out a little in number of trips.
But then I'm worried my DS’s would feel like I’m picking kids / left out.
Please help
Thanks
x

It’s absolutely fine to take her away while they are away with their Dad but it’s also not unfair that they get to go away with their other parent. Two x holidays, christmas presents etc is about the only benefit to separated parents.

My DSD gets more trips away and more presents but she also has to split her time between 2 households and manage all the things that come with separated parents so I see it as one of the few plus points so don’t worry about trying to even it up. Your DD is probably younger so it will even out