So quick summary:
Ex very abusive towards me and DS. (Throwing plates that almost his DS when shattered, gave me a black eye when pregnant, screamed and head butted me and spat in my face when holding DS as newborn, smashed card up which could have affected DS safety, threw his Moses basket when he was NOT in it of course and so much more!!)
Stopped DS from seeing his "dad"
Ex left me too it for a while
Ex got in contact with his DD after a year (His DD is not mine and never met my son)
Ex DD messaged me yesterday asking to see my son I said of course but then she said she only wanted to see him with her dad and only to get a photo with him that is it in so many words, I said no I did not want her dad there and so she advised me to "piss off" and called me a "cunt".
Removed and blocked ex DD.
ex showed up at my brothers house today to ask he sorts out access for him to see my DS. NOT HAPPENING.
I emailed my ex advising if he contacts me or my family again I will go to the police to get an injunction against him. Is this harassment?
I'm so triggered by this and I feel so down and distraught that's these people are being so abusive still and still expect my son to be handed over to them!!!!
What do I do? (My ex has previously threatened if I go to the police about him he would shoot my family)! Scary bit is I think he would retaliate with violence. He threatened this over a phone call though and therefore I have no proof. However i since got told he threatened to kill his ex wife and her family and so she got an injunction against him.