We are expecting our third when our two girls will be 5Y4m and 2Y5m. I basically want to know if things will be absolute carnage or is this quite a ‘good’ age gap?
Main issue right now is that I’m still BFing and co-sleeping if youngest wakes. Don’t want to stop either but want a safe sleeping environment for newborn when they arrive and don’t think I have it in me to tandem feed. Eldest also ends up in with me or DH every night lol. Don’t know whether to put the two girls in same room or not.
Husband is military and away lots, eldest will be in school and middle in nursery 3 days a week. We don’t have family close-by but my parents are happy to fly over if I ask. MIL 4 hours away and also happy to visit but I find that she just creates more work for me and I don’t feel relaxed etc.
Basically, any tips or tricks for solo-parenting 3 kiddos? We are very early days so lots of time to get prepared!
thanks!