Hi
What would you do if you found out your ex's gf was messaging your 11yr old on their phone when they have only met the once?.
He has only been with her a couple of months and sneakily introduced her when he told me that she had gone away.
I try to be reasonable but we are having a little holiday away just me and the kids and I would rather they didn't keep messaging. When he had them for a weekend I respected that and didn't message DD at all unless she messaged me first.
The GF is being weird saying things like you disappeared? Are you ok?. My DD is rubbish at charging her phone and I have already had a chat with her dad that she is not ignoring him.
I just feel like someone who has met my child once should not be messaging them.
TIA x