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[ThisFancySnake]

AIBU-

My mil has my sil daughter most evenings in the week and almost EVERY weekend, during this time she takes granddaughter on holidays in her camper.

Now my problem is that she’s never offered to take our children who would LOVE to go. She doesn’t as much as ask about our children, declines invites when we invite her round for food as she’s always got her other granddaughter.

I am starting to become increasingly more bothered about this as she constantly sends photos of granddaughter enjoying their weekend breaks together.

My Partner is not confrontational, however he’s just as annoyed about this, how do I approach this situation?

my concern is that as my children get older they’re going to notice

Is it because your niece is an ‘only’ ….MIL probs thinks she only wants to handle one child?

No she has a sibling, however the other child goes away with his dad.

Our youngest is a baby, so would even expect her to take her away at all (she is aware of this). I’m not expecting her to take my children away, but I just feel it is highly unreasonable to not even text to check in on children when your whisking the other away almost every single week.

I’d reply to every photo ‘It looks such fun, my kids are so looking forward to having their turn away with you! When would you like to take them?’ And send it every time you get a photo