How to cope with 2 kids?

[ChilledMama85]

Just wondering how other parents cope with 2 kids with big age gap during school hols/ hols?

I am so stressed when I look after my 4 mths DS old and my 5 yo DD on days when DD does not go to childcare.
Lil one wants to be carried around/ chatted to all the time & my DD also wants my full attention. I feel like a failure trying to look after both at the same time.

Completely feel you on this, I have a 9 year old soon to be 10 and a 2 year old! I find park days out helps on days when my toddler is not at nursery. Xx