I have ds 3.6 and ds 16 months and I constantly feel stressed and angry and always end up yelling, getting mad and then feeling really bad afterwards. My eldest tantrums have gotten more frequent and more extreme to the point he will just scream and half the time I don't know why. The other half he constantly wants me but I can't be with him all the time especially when I have my youngest. I try talking to him but he is speech delayed and generally delayed and I don't know how much he actually understands. I need to get my anger under control but when I wake up every morning at 6am to him crying and it's last for the entire day I'm exhausted. Nothing but whinging and moaning, when does it get easier?