Hi all.
Iv been in the same 50/50 routine with my 3 children for over 4 years now and so everything my self when my kids are with me pick ups drop offs and all that stuff i use nursery and afrer school club when i need it. Recently their mother has told me shes starting back work at her old job at the nhs on 2 random shifts a wk and has messaged me just saying basically i will have to sort out picking the kids up for her on her days regardless of weather im at work or have plans in what woukd be my time. And basically if i dont the kids wont get picked up and it will be my problem. She doesnt want to have to go out her own way to make things work for her self or have to pay for nursery cost. She says the routine 4 year plus long routine doesnt matter no more cause it was never written in stone thru court.
I have just said that i wont be doing what shes telling me to do and that its her responsibility to sort it out for her self.
Am i wrong here or so should i start jumping thru hoops to make her life work for her.
Thanks