Desperately after help!
I have 7 year old twins (boy:girl) and their behaviour is getting out of hand. Their language is appalling and sadly learnt the ‘n’ word at school and keep using it. We are beside ourselves as racism is absolutely not acceptable in our house. They swear so much and ignore us and basically gang up & think they can do what they want. They behave worse for my partner when he’s on his own than with me, not sure why.
We try to discipline, we get very mad (which I know doesn’t help but we’re at the end of our tether) and we ban devices and treats I.e they haven’t had devices for about 6 weeks as they keep losing more tone due to behaviour.
I’m keen to hear from others who have found ways to improve behaviour especially if you have twins - as they are definitely better apart but that’s not often possible.