I'm struggling to find a bed guard for our cot bed. Really want to take one of the sides off (I'm short and DS is 2.5 and heavy!). Is it me being stupid?! The cot bed mattress is flat, there's no drop between the edge and the slats. Do I need a bed guard that attaches to the slats?! I got a mesh one but didn't realise there was meant to be a 25mm drop for it to sit in. Or shall I just get a pool noodle/roll a blanket?! Would prefer a bed guard as I don't trust DS!!