Please… I’d like to know what others set up is.
ExDH lives local (at the moment), I would like to prepare myself of what could be…. He has applied for 50/50 and made up a lot of lies about me on his form. I think the social and school see through his lies (and the separation abuse I’ve been facing for walking), they have been supportive… I have evidence to prove it’s all lies whether cafcass or social investigate… The kids are comfortable with 2 nights a week, when we tried 3 nights with him, they were showing too much separation anxiety with me. I think it’s a long game so it’s so important it’s all done at their pace. I don’t even mind 50/50 if the kids were up to it and he was mature but he still has a lot of growing up emotionally to do.
Guess I’m wondering what others ended up with..
Kids are age 4, 6 and 8
thanks