Gone are the days when we went to the park. I feel like I don't spend time with my 11year old. I work full time, so don't see them until tea time, then I'm taking them to and from clubs and dance classes and then they are on their tablet chatting to friends whilst I'm sorting the house, cleaning and cooking. Weekends are precious but they play netball and this weekend had a party and sleepover. Now feeling really guilty and sad that we don't have the closeness of the park days. How do you spend time with your older ones?