Really in a pickle and need advice.
LO has been with a childminder for a few months, she only goes 2 days a week (Mondays and Tuesday).
She has been going for a few months now bar illnesses holidays Christmas etc.
upon drop off and collection she always cries and has done since we started there, she has never not cried. although I’m reassured that when she gets there she is fine. Videos and photos sent from throughout the day show that she seems to be doing well as well as feedback from CM. Never had to collect her for being unsettled.
im starting to get anxious that it’s been 3 - 4 months and she still cries upon drop off and collection. I also notice on the days she comes home after being with the CM, she is just tired (despite apparently having really long naps…) and is just more upset and clingy. She cries from bathtime until bedtime and seems unhappy.
is it time to take her out or am I being unreasonable?