when I make a point to my ex about my daughter being rude or disrespectful, she seems to go off on one and start an argument and turns my daughter against me. But when my ex tells my daughter off, or kicks her out for being disrespectful, I am not allowed to say a word…surely that’s not right? She is 12. I see my kids every day, and we get along. But sometimes my daughter can be rude and disrespectful to me.