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Hi everyone, signed up cause I have a DS of 20 months and have just had a DD 4 weeks ago, and my god - how do I cope with 2?! I don’t have a “village” to help and hubby is a farmer so works all hours…. It’s madness, and I don’t feel like I’m managing simple things like DS nap, can’t remember the last time I had a cuppa, DD spends a lot of time needing held and struggles with wind … any tips on how to function?! One stressed muma!

Hugs it gets easier! I had a 14 month age gap.. I've found the TV is often on a bit too long but that's okay, sometimes someone will cry and that's also okay it won't hurt them.
I fix what can be fixed first, so if dc1 wants a snack and dc2 needs a cuddle and comfort I do the snack first.

I'm 8 months in and now it's much easier

Hugs it gets easier! I had a 14 month age gap.. I've found the TV is often on a bit too long but that's okay, sometimes someone will cry and that's also okay it won't hurt them.
I fix what can be fixed first, so if dc1 wants a snack and dc2 needs a cuddle and comfort I do the snack first.

I'm 8 months in and now it's much easier