Hello...
My son is 5. His dad is a narcissist and was a terrible partner and dad. It was nothing but abuse.
I left him 2 years ago.
He dragged me through court for control basically
Anyway... my son goes to his dads every other weekend. Friday evening - Sunday evening.
My son had a water bottle. Before he leaves on Friday night I send him with his water bottle full of juice or whatever.
Tonight, he has come back and the water bottle still has the same bit of fresh orange juice at the bottom. It's not been cleaned or re filled etc.
My son told me he's been thirsty all weekend and dad didn't buy him any other drink or give him one.
He's very lazy and I really worry for my son when he's there. Do I say something ?