Partner drinking

[GKJ85]

My partner makes me feel bad for asking him not to stay up too late drinking and being hungover when we have an 11m/o to look after. What to do?

Hangover or not, they need to pull their weight with kids regardless. If they can't hack parenting with a hangover then they need to not drink to excess.

If he's not helping because of hangover, I'd hand them baby early morning and go for a shower, then downstairs. And if required, then tell them you're popping out for a bit.

Strange to get drunk often when they have a smaller child tho. My partner has a couple of whiskeys a few nights a week. But doesn't impact his parenting so it doesn't bother me

So he's staying up late and drinking then making you feel bad? Sounds like he's an abusive twat.