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Lone mum, don't know health history of dads side of family...of

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orangeguy · 14/12/2023 21:51

I'm a lone mum as he's blocked me/doesn't want the child.

I don't know health conditions of his family. Is that a concern?

I stupidly messaged his mum and sister on fb.

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BringItOnxxx · 14/12/2023 21:52

I wouldn't give it much thought tbh.

ChristmasPuddingPie · 14/12/2023 21:53

I wouldn’t worry about it, my daughter ended up having a condition her father didn’t even know was genetic in his side of the family he had no idea 🙄 are you sure you are not just looking for reasons for contact?

orangeguy · 14/12/2023 21:53

Ok. If I delete the Fb messages will it be deleted their end?

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BringItOnxxx · 14/12/2023 21:53

Sorry to hear about her DC's father. I hope his family are more supportive either way. X

orangeguy · 14/12/2023 21:55

His nephew had autism. He's got two other children... I don't know if they have any health conditions etc.

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orangeguy · 14/12/2023 21:55

ChristmasPuddingPie · 14/12/2023 21:53

I wouldn’t worry about it, my daughter ended up having a condition her father didn’t even know was genetic in his side of the family he had no idea 🙄 are you sure you are not just looking for reasons for contact?

Yes probably

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orangeguy · 14/12/2023 21:55

BringItOnxxx · 14/12/2023 21:53

Sorry to hear about her DC's father. I hope his family are more supportive either way. X

They probably aren't :/

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Mrsjayy · 14/12/2023 21:58

orangeguy · 14/12/2023 21:53

Ok. If I delete the Fb messages will it be deleted their end?

yes it will delete as long as you clicked unsend which you probably did.

I'm 50 something I haven't seen my biological dad and extended family since I was 4 /5, I've not a clue about their health it isn't something I've worried about.

take care of yourself try and not stress too much.

Ketzele · 14/12/2023 22:02

Lots of us don't know our child's health histories (in my case because of adoption) and it just can't be helped.

Step away from FB, breathe deeply, you can do this!

orangeguy · 14/12/2023 23:51

Ok thanks x

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orangeguy · 15/12/2023 01:12

@Mrsjayy will they have a notification it's from me?

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