am a little bit lost at the moment as a week ago I did agree to my 3year olds daughters dad coming too meet her to give her some Christmas presents also and he says he wants to actually try with her now and step up and be a dad as he hasn’t actually seen her since she was 1. My partner went a bit off with me because of this because of how he doesn’t bother with my daughter and my partner has brought up my daughter since she was 8months old and because of my daughters dad when she was a few months old nearly making me lose my daughter to the courts as he was abusive to me before my pregnancy etc . In the end I told my partner I weren’t going anymore then he had kept telling me too go so I’ve just said no because I don’t want any arguments or any fuss really.
Ended up speaking to my mum about it and she said it’s not good that I’ll be going alone so she’s going to come with me . My daughter’s dad will have his girlfriend and other child with him after I said for him to come alone his girlfriend had disagreed with me basically. I did end up messaging the dad saying we’ll have to rearrange as my daughters unwell so going to rearrange for next week but I don’t know where I am going wrong am I wrong for this . It’s really difficult for me right now don’t know how to tell my partner I’ve rearranged for next week also .