I am my 4 year olds go to parent only when I'll, otherwise it's both mum and dad. I have a 2.5 month old, I conbifeeed her, pump half the milk of her total intake and the rest half is formula, so dad and Nan can help with her feeds. I just feel very guilty that we won't share the special bond as I don't breast feed and I am spending more time with my toddler. And tbh my toddler has been I'll every other week since dd was born on 26:09.
M just scared she won't know m the mum as there are like three carers with dad and Nan doing more