Now - I know it. You know it. But DP (and probably other men out there) cant get it into his head that babies are big grumpy-pants babies normally from around 4pm til bed time because they're tired!
He is convinced that DD hates him because she doesn't settle with him and he cant seem to make her smile or laugh etc lately.
I have told him that babies get grumpy from around 4pm and that it's really nothing personal but his argument is that as soon as i pick her up and cuddle her, she stops crying. I've told him it's because i'm more used to pacifying her and know the magic holds and tricks in order to stop her grumping and also it's simply because i'm her mum! His reply was "Well she obviously doesn't feel comfortable with me and i'm supposed to be her dad!".
He gives her a bath every night and also a bottle of EBM after i've given her a massage so he is involved with her as much as possible in the evenings. Obviously if he's coming home from work during the grumpy hours, she's just not going to play ball is she!
Any tips on what i could say/do to convince him he is actually loved and does have a huge influence on DD would be greatly appreciated as it seems to be getting him down!
TIA!