DS1 is 4.5 going on 14 (think Harry Enfield's Kevin )
He WILL NOT listen to what adults tell him, and will go off in a huff if you try and make him listen. It is now getting him into trouble at school.
We have tried talking and shouting, bribery and threats, punishments and rewards and they are all falling on deaf ears.
We have probed to see if there is something wrong at school or home that is affecting him, but there doesn't seem to be.
What else can we try? We have seriously run out of ideas.
TIA