What sort of things did you do to help your oldest prepare during your pregnancy? For example, did you give them any books or talk to them about what to expect about the time after the baby is born..what to expect etc:?
Our oldest will be 12 when baby sibling arrives next year and although she is looking forward to it, I'm slightly concerned that seeing me a hormonal mess and all that comes along after giving birth will come as a shock to her. Is there anything that has worked well for you or anything you would suggest to help make things easier for her? Anything you wouldn't do?!
Thank you