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Two year old really doesn't like me

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desikated · 03/11/2023 07:31

Just that really.

Two year old is obsessed with her dad. She will scream if left with me if he is still in the house. Run around shouting daddy daddy daddy until she finds him. When I have tried to sit down and play with her, she will cry and say 'nono' trying to wave me out the way. Tried all the well it's mummy's turn to have fun now, or daddy's busy, being sympathetic and understanding.

When he's not in the house, she's fine. Yesterday we had the whole day together and she was affectionate and seemed to enjoy herself. This morning it is back to daddy daddy and telling me to go away.

I'm really sad and upset. I'm being rejected by my own child and actually feel quite bullied at times. My husband (her dad) has done more of the physical parenting due to my health needs. And i feel like now we have created a situation where I'm always the shit, worst choice parent no matter how fun I try to be. It just makes me want to run away and leave them to if.

I can't say this to anyone in real life because I suspect they'll say, oh no that's never happened to me and I'll feel even worse.

has anyone else had this experience?

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desikated · 03/11/2023 07:46

Oh and I hated my mum growing up and she hated me. So I can see that history is repeating itself.

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