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What do you earn a month as a mum with young children?

141 replies

lilacsky89 · 31/10/2023 13:49

Just curious what is normal/average for a mum who works part time and has young children?

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Catacapa · 31/10/2023 20:27

What do you earn OP?

Notamum12345577 · 31/10/2023 20:31

Bohemond23 · 31/10/2023 14:19

£15-£20k - it is irrelevant that I am female and I have a young child.

15-20k a month? Nice! 😁

DahliaJ · 31/10/2023 20:37

At the time, I was teaching part time. I earned £700 a month, but had to pay £300 in fuel per month, plus childcare fees. I think I was left with £50 per month. It did maintain my permanent contract though.

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Moonshine160 · 31/10/2023 20:42

£1060 per month after pension has been deducted. 18.5 hours per week. Would like to earn more because I got a good degree and don’t even need it to do my role, I sometimes feel like I should be doing more. But I work from home, flexible hours, actually enjoy my job.

SouthLondonMum22 · 31/10/2023 20:44

0MammaBear0 · 31/10/2023 17:47

I work 7 days a week for about 12h, sometimes even longer than that. No days off, no sick days and I earn £0 myself but I wouldn't trade my job for anything in the entire world (I'm a homemaker)

Parents who work full time might get ''sick days'' and ''days off'' from work but it just means you are home with the children instead.

Movingstresss · 31/10/2023 20:46

I tend to do 3 days a week (might do a few hours in Fridays if busy ). Take home about 3.1k a month after taxes , pension and student loan.

cadburyegg · 31/10/2023 20:49

£1900 after deductions. Single mum, 2 primary aged kids.

TheSnailAndTheWaaaail · 31/10/2023 21:04

About 1800 take home for 22.5 hours/week

2 kids under 5 and husband works full time.

IntheSand · 31/10/2023 21:12

0MammaBear0 · 31/10/2023 17:47

I work 7 days a week for about 12h, sometimes even longer than that. No days off, no sick days and I earn £0 myself but I wouldn't trade my job for anything in the entire world (I'm a homemaker)

Sorry - presumably your kids go to school like mine (one is in nursery but the point remains). So if I’m ill and it’s not a school day where do you think my kids go? Same for days off?

Reality is I work whilst my kids are in school and I’m ill when I’m ill, I just do all the other “home making” around my paid employment.

I don’t get a day off being a parent just because I’m on annual leave…

FarmersWife2019 · 31/10/2023 21:13

Similar role (receptionist) to before I had DS (nearly 2yo) but reduced hours from 37.5 over 5 days to 20 over 2 days. I take home just under £900 after pension.

Mrsmch123 · 31/10/2023 22:07

£1500 after all deductions. 2 days a week. I have one child and husband works full time at around £2800.
I will increase my hours by one day when he gets a funded nursery place.....maybe🙊

FrownedUpon · 31/10/2023 22:16

4K take home pay. Full time, mostly at home.

GeorgeBeckett · 31/10/2023 22:24

3.5k post deductions. 4 days, 1-2 from home, couple of weekends a year and available overnight about once a month. 2 children aged 4 and 1. Pension contribution is massive about 12%. Will be a little more in the next couple of years once student loan is cleared. Mine is the "big job". DH earns less and has more flexibility.

ZforZebra · 31/10/2023 22:34

£5600 after deductions, full-time WFH 3-4 days a week with very flexible schedule that I can largely fit around personal stuff like PTA meetings, recitals, doctors appointments, gym etc. 2 kids age 3 and 5. DH also full-time, earns about the same.

kionol · 31/10/2023 22:55

£4900 a month take home, 2 days a week. 2 DC aged 1 and 5, DH works ft.

bluepurpleangel · 31/10/2023 23:01

It was 3k for 30 hours but I hated it and recently decided life was too short so jacked it in. Now earn £1500 for 21 hours in a (hopefully) less stressful job with less travel.

RMNofTikTok · 01/11/2023 00:44

What do I earn? Or what is my income? As the answers are wildly different! I have a disability so I'm unluckily lucky that I receive a lot of money for that!

G5000 · 01/11/2023 06:06

average for a mum who works part time
One of my reports just had a baby and came back 4 days. I still pay her 6 figures, nothing to do with her parenthood. Does that help?

Pleaseme · 01/11/2023 06:10

Now I’m full time and earn £2.2k after deductions. Started out on £500 ish for 12 hours a week.

starlight2k · 01/11/2023 06:16

£900pm for 3 days

AngelAurora · 01/11/2023 06:25

CroccyWoccy · 31/10/2023 17:19

Also I think these threads attract people who are (understandably!) proud of their earnings and happy to share them so skews to higher incomes.

Exactly, a stealth boast thread.

muddlingthrou · 01/11/2023 06:58

Just over £3k a month plus quarterly and annual bonuses. This felt like a lavish amount before children, now it feels like a stretch to cover childcare, rising CoL etc. I have no idea how people on less cope!

rolvus · 01/11/2023 07:03

Moneymonkey · 31/10/2023 14:11

Same as @riotlady - £1283 after tax and pension. Work 24 hrs a week (WFH).

Would you mind saying what job this is. I'd be happy with that, and no commute.

Redlocks30 · 01/11/2023 07:03

I take home just over £1700 a month doing three days a week.

legalseagull · 01/11/2023 08:23

£1,900 after deductions. I work 9-3 (school runs) 4 days a week.