One year old upset after stopping bF :(

[EssexMamisoa]

my one year old was a diva with feeding would also for bf about a million times a day. We’ve cut down this week to one in morning on wake up & one at night before bed (and one during the night). in the day she has milk from her sippy cup. Which she does take after protesting. practically it’s working, but my Dc has gone from a super happy smiling friendly baby to a grouchy upset baby most of the day :( I feel terrible that I’ve caused this.

Did anyone find this when they stopped / cut down on bfs?

i also feel down in myself and look forward to our evening feed all day. I am stopping because I want my periods back as I’d love to try for a sibling for Dc.

It would make no difference to her life.

I can't understand how you think you're helping your cause.

@PenguinRainbows give it a rest please

#judgypenguinrainbows

Are you sure it isn't just a coincidence? She might just be going through a fussy phase that would've happened no matter what or she might be teething etc.

Don't be so hard on yourself. She'll be absolutely fine.

Of course it would, but you’re welcome to pretend otherwise if you wish.

@PenguinRainbows A one year old does not need fed every two hours, utterly ridiculous and your posts are bordering on nasty.

You can sink further into your extreme ideology if you wish.

There’s nothing extreme about a one year old baby still breastfeeding

Breastfeeding isn’t extreme, your attitude towards it is.

Sorry your thread has been hijacked OP. Go east on yourself. Big hugs. I know your baby will be fine x

Thank you. Yes it may well be. Feeling more positive today as Dc more smiley than yesterday!! DH thinks I’m reading into things too much, but that’s our job as a mum right….😅

@wystful thank you too.