My h and I separated three months ago and will be getting divorced. Our dc are 18-22.
Can anyone give an insight as to how someone I used to think was a good dad has turned into a rubbish one? Feels like he is just doing the bare minimum and in some aspects not even that.
I've spoken to him. I have suggested what he could say and do. Nothing has been forthcoming.
How do I make sure my dc are okay? They say they are fine. One isn't bothered and won't speak to him unless they have to. I think with the other two, one is angry the other upset and confused.
I am so disappointed in him and bloody furious internally tbh.