We have a 6 year old boy and i broke up with him 2 years ago and since i have a boyfriend (we got together about 6 months ago) he’s trying to control everything in my life and just trying to find anything he can kick off about. At first he tried to tell me my son and my boyfriend can’t see each other, tried to tell my boyfriend what he can play on the xbox and now his problem is that he’s smoking out of the window every now and again even tho he’s a smoker too. My son and boyfriend loves each other by the way. I just really don’t know how to deal with his controlling behaviour when there’s no need for it because our son is happy. I know he still loves me and can’t move on.