From the day she was born she has not wanted her father who is amazing and patient. Any time he touches her she throws herself back, hitting her head, grabbing his face and screaming until I have her again. I can't leave the room or go anywhere without her screaming until I am back leaving him disheartened and my 2 year old overwhelmed. I haven't had a night away since she was born as she cannot cope and it doesn't seem fair to leave them all in that state as I struggle to even leave once a week to swim. We are tired, my partner is very upset and I believe it's not a 'phase' as it's been ever since she was born. I don't know what to do as it is so hard to watch, her temper and inability to self soothe is hard for us all.