Hi. I just was hoping for any advice, for I have been dealing with something and it’s got to the point my anxiety is out of control but I have been quiet about it.
My boyfriend and I bought a house a year and a half ago, we’re fixing it up and I have been working hard every weekend on the yard grass and flower beds, gardening is a love for me stress relief, I have 12 and 9 yr old sons and he has a 9 year old son. Meshing has been hard, but we’re working on it. I’m just going to be forward . I am private and I like things tidy clean and in order, my boyfriend just always thinks boys should be boys
i have asked our 3 kids plus 2-5. Neighbor kids to please stay out of the garage, off my flower beds, but they will not listen to me I’m getting exhausted I feel I am always picking up their trash and my broken plants and broken yard lights behind them. When we bought the house it has a tree swing literally right In front of the front door grass is ruined underneath it , and kids from all over want to be on it in the dirt right infront of my house and tromp over all my hard work
I don’t want to be the mean mom or fun hater but it’s driving me absolutely insane and so much anxiety, not sure it will be a fight with everyone in my house even my boyfriend ….. but know one is respecting how I feel, I have kept the swing up for a year and a half cause they liked it, but it tracks in all the dirt in the front door and I have a tiny porch and loads of kids tromp over it all, I don’t want the swing- am I horrible ? Then they go to the garage and make a mess of it and constantly having kids over going through it. Where am I going wrong?
thank you for taking the time to read my rant!! Please .. any advice